No more second-guessing every message.

Get the court-safe, trauma-aware assistant built just for safe parents.

You already have ChatGPT. This isn’t it.

No more hitting “send” with your heart racing.
No more over-explaining or JADE-ing.
Replies that are court-safe, emotionally detached, and child-focused.
Built by a safe-parent founder who’s lived it, trusted by thousands.
One-click replies, faster than you can type your anger.

Ongoing peace of mind for less than a takeaway

You’ve spent long enough second-guessing every message.
Wondering what to say, Or worse, saying too much.

SafeSend turns those moments of panic into peace. Here’s how it protects you with every reply:

💬 Upload toxic messages and get calm, court-safe replies, instantly.
🚫 Stop oversharing, spiralling, or JADE-ing, even on your worst day.
🔒 Replies that are emotionally detached, trauma-informed, and court-ready.
🧠 Built on Grey Rock, Yellow Rock, and JADE communication frameworks.
✨ Designed by The Single Mama Club, trusted by thousands of safe parents.

Trauma-aware, court-safe, real results. Cancel anytime.

A Real-Life Example

This is what calm clarity looks like, even when the message is designed to provoke.

SafeSend Reply:

"I'm focusing on the children's needs. I won't engage in personal attacks."

Built in seconds. No JADE-ing. No spiralling. No regrets - just peace.

Toxic Message:

"You've ruined everything. The kids are a mess because of you."

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💬 What Our SafeSend Parents Are Saying...

“SafeSend stopped me from sending angry essays I’d regret later.” - Steph R.“It’s like having Katie in my pocket.” - Laura M.“This tool changed how I communicate with my ex, and myself.” - Rachael D."I now feel like I've got the BEST kind of Backup." - Louise F.

FAQ's

Isn’t this just like ChatGPT?

Not even close. ChatGPT is general AI. SafeSend is trauma-aware AI, trained through the lens of court-safe communication, emotional regulation, and child-focused language. Where ChatGPT might accidentally mirror blame, overshare, or JADE, SafeSend is pre-programmed to neutralise manipulation, protect your legal position, and keep you calm.

Will it really work for my situation?

Yes. SafeSend isn’t a one-size-fits-all bot. It’s built on frameworks like Grey Rock, Yellow Rock, and JADE, which adapt to any co-parenting tone. Whether you’re dealing with stonewalling, DARVO attacks, or guilt-tripping, SafeSend helps you reply without taking the bait.

SafeSend doesn’t replace legal advice, but it’s court-safe by design. Every response it generates is grounded in neutral, factual, non-inflammatory language that aligns with how judges, Cafcass, and family solicitors expect communication to look between co-parents. It helps you stay credible, consistent, and calm, three qualities that carry serious weight in court.

Is it legally approved or court-recognised?

Do I need to be in the Single Mama Academy to use SafeSend?

No, you can use SafeSend completely on its own if you just need help handling communication right now. That said, SafeSend is now included in certain Single Mama Academy membership tiers, so if you’re ready for deeper support with court prep, boundaries, and emotional regulation, it may be worth joining the Academy instead. You’ll get SafeSend plus weekly coaching, live calls, and a full library of court-safe resources designed to keep you calm, confident, and in control.

Do I need to be tech-savvy to use it?

Not at all. If you can copy and paste a message, you can use SafeSend. Upload the message, choose your tone, hit Generate, and your calm, court-ready response appears instantly.

The Time is Now

You don’t need to justify your boundaries, explain your parenting, or defend your peace ever again.
SafeSend helps you stay calm, clear, and confident, one reply at a time.

Created by the Founder of The Single Mama Club, with lived experience, legal awareness, and two decades of childcare and communication strategy behind every message.

SafeSend.AI is part of The Single Mama Club ecosystem, trusted by parents worldwide.

Instant access. No setup needed. Cancel anytime.

Disclaimer: SafeSend is designed to support safer communication, it is not a substitute for legal advice. Please always save and document your records. For all T's & C's please see below.